One of my girlfriends admitted to me the other day that she does not like giving blow jobs.
(Yes, it has been a while since I wrote about sex.)
A few of my male friends have also told me that they do not enjoy when a girl gives oral sex.
My girlfriend, and apparently lots of women, are not fond of the penis.
Coincidentally, a year ago at this time, I wrote that many women aren't even comfortable saying the word 'penis'.
She specifically told me that she thinks it is not a particularly attractive body part to look at. All the while she said this, her face showed a look of complete disgust.
"And to put your mouth on it?" She shivered in recoil.
I am certainly not chiding her for her thoughts or feelings on this. This was simply a topic we'd not discussed before. I began asking other people and found that many wives won't do it and many women simply prefer not to.
A few of my male friends have told me that they cannot orgasm from oral sex.
Some men have told me that women do not know what they are doing and therefore, the act isn't always an enjoyable experience.
Is it just me that's thinking that you could always tell the person what you like?
Other men have told me that it is absolutely obvious that women do not like performing this act. Knowing that the gal isn't enjoying it, the man feels guilty and simply cannot get past it.
I've had some men tell me that if a women does not like giving head, they can usually tell by simply observing her comfort level with men.
I am curious of your thoughts on this, men and women.
You are certainly welcome to comment anonymously if you don't feel comfortable stating your *ahem* taste or distaste of fellatio.
And for a really fun read, check out wikipedia's explanation on Oral Sex.
Its pretty darn close to all you need to know.