Thursday, September 17, 2009
Orgasm... let me count the ways!
Back in December, when I pondered the orgasm, I asked the question, "Why rush it?"
I was frustrated with the lack of orgasms in my previous relationship. I was begging for more.
Sometimes, in life, you get exactly what you ask for.
Over the weekend, I experienced the longest and best orgasm of my life.
I couldn't even begin to explain it. I can't count the numerous ways that I'm able to orgasm with Gentleman Jack. Maybe because its new? Maybe because I feel so comfortable and loved with him? Maybe I'm at some sort of sexual peak?
Maybe it's just because he's that damn good.
Or maybe, just maybe, it has something to do with me.
I'm fascinated by the orgasm. I find pleasure in so many different ways but to reach the pinnacle (but hopefully there are many MANY more) of heights of orgasm this weekend... I want to know more!
When there is a need to know more, the Internet is a playground of fun.
I found this group that focuses completely on the female orgasm. They have videos on youtube (but not graphical). They claim to be able to teach a woman to have an hour-long orgasm from clitoral stimulation.
Then again, I have also experienced many orgasms that didn't involve the clitoris. And some of you have said the same.
There are so many youtube videos on g-spot orgasm that I couldn't even get to 'em all. G-spot stimulation could also lead to female ejaculation. This is yet another topic that fascinates me. I've heard female ejaculation is only possible in 30-35% of women. Still, I think I might achieve that goal at some point. I am SOOO close.
Clitoral and g-spot are the two most common ways to orgasm but let's not stop there!
This article was completely fascinating to me because he introduced "4 sexual hot spots" for women: the clitoris (C-spot), A-spot, G-spot and U-spot.
And that doesn't even cover others like anal orgasms, orgasms from breast or nipple stimulation or the myriad other ways to cum and enjoy sex!
I also haven't scratched the surface of Tantra and how opening up your vocal chords could lead to even stronger orgasms.
Woohoo! Isn't there so much more territory left to explore?
All I know is that the older I get, the more I'm learning and finding there is more to learn about sex.
At this point in life, I'm beginning to think the entire body could be an erogenous zone. You can simply orgasm from breathing! Why the hell not?!
It all begins with an orgasm in your mind, doesn't it?
For now, I will relish in the memories of this weekend and those many minutes of shuddering in out-of-breath ecstasy at the touch of my lover. The best part of it all was that he was crazy turned on to witness me experience something that powerful.
I think that one trait alone makes him the most amazing lover.