Monday, March 1, 2010

Pity party


Have you ever noticed that some days are just tougher than others? Don't you sometimes wanna wallow in self-pity? Is it just me or does it seem like single parenthood's a real bitch sometimes? Too much... TOO MUCH!

Yeah yeah. I'll get over it. I'm sure I'll be better tomorrow.

Worn the fuck out.

19 comments:

  1. yes, yes, and yes. but usually if I can find a way to laugh, it helps a lot.

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  2. I've been having a pity party for over a week now. The worst part? I've been kicking any bystanders in the teeth. Guess we know who THAT means, huh?

    Ugh.

    Hang in there, girl, it'll get better...it always does.

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  3. T - Buck up camper! You rock :)

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  4. Hugs T! I hope tomorrow is better. For tonight I am passing on to you my stash of vodka. Enjoy. LOL

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  5. Um, yeah. I've noticed.

    Hugs and vodka,
    ~M

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  6. Giiirl, I hear ya. It's rough, but it makes us girls tougher!

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  7. No its not just you....somedays just suck more ass than most...or so I've noticed.

    *hugs*

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  8. yup! That about says it all..some days are just too much!! :(

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  9. God, if you would have read my blog post two or three days ago you would have thought my life was ending.

    Shit, we all have those days when we just want to pull the covers over our heads and cry into our pillows a little.

    Then we put on our big girl panties and move on with our lives. Why? Because we don't have the option not to when you're a single parent.

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  10. Ugh T. Today was one of those days for me too. I also suspect that my mood had a lot to do with the weather today. Hugs, and I hope tomorrow is a better day. Spring is coming...that was the mantra that got me through the day.

    Oh and I would LOVE to catch up for lunch.

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  11. geez louise, me too! is it the full moon? the dragging out of a really icky winter? lingering cold and flu season? who knows, but it has been one of those "this too shall pass days." to a better tomorrow!

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  12. Your last line about covers it. But the mood passes. A good cry helps.

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  13. Hey T. I have no knowledge of single parenthood but it has got to suck sometimes.

    Baby pull up those big girl panties and chin up, tits out and take it on. Hit it in the mouth and dare it to hit back.

    You can do it, you can handle it and YOU can work it out.

    muah kisses sexy, good luck.

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  14. I know. I understand. And when I get like that, I make a huge steaming mug of tea...extra sugar, and find a movie to empower me. Nothing like a good chick flick.

    And rest. And learn to let some things go. You don't have to be Wonder Woman...although you can still wear the costume...

    Thinking of you and sending big hugs your way!

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  15. We all do it and it is ok. Do some yoga or go for a run. It helps to get the endorphines going.

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  16. Yep, it's a bitch sometimes. I took two Tylenols when I woke up this morning. Some days, you wish there was another adult in the house to carry some of the load.

    Hope you feel better soon.

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  17. Well, you are such an amazing friend. You felt like this and still reached out to me on my birthday. I love you so hard. Hang in there.

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  18. Ah pity parties! I know them well :)

    David doesnt do pity parties so it is tough for me some days cos I just want to wallow in a bit of pity!

    (hugs) hun!

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  19. I seriously don't know how you do it? Really? It seems daunting, and never-ending to me, having my ex help out 24-7 is still better than doing it alone. Ughh. yes, you're allowed to throw a pity party once in a while. But . . . I'm not staying long. Can't wallow in pity for too long right? :)

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